Archive for Make Better Photographs – Page 8

A Photographer’s Diary, A Hurt Ego

I wanted to write about something personal that happened to me this week. In the hope that if it strikes a chord with you, it might help you to stop making the error I just made.

I have been working very hard on bringing new business into Healing with Photography and setting up courses with new clients. I have gone back to a company that I used to work for, (a good few years ago), helping them in a community project that they are running, to help people recovering from mental illness.

It was a big step to get back in touch with them. And, an even bigger step to go down and do an impromptu demonstration with the group, so they could see if it was something that they felt would benefit them.

As I offered to do a short example with them, I felt a little bit of fear as to what I might put in to it. I’ve always shied away from doing a short presentation of the course, as I’m never convinced that it demonstrates Healing with Photography in the best light, as it’s too short a time. Yet in the moment it felt right.

I had to wait for a few days for the decision, as to whether the group felt this was going to be the thing for them; thankfully, they did and it’s full steam ahead. I was elated that I had achieved this contract, my boyfriend was thrilled for me, and my mum too. The one fly in the ointment, was one person within the family, who still, a week on, hasn’t mentioned one word about it; he just seemed resentful. Read More→

A Photographer’s Diary, Who Are You Making Time For?

As the weeks roll by, can you believe that we are in July already? It’s time to take stock. Most importantly for me, it’s time to make sure that whilst I’m busy creating new business and bouncing ideas off of every available wall, that I make time for the people in my life.

A couple of months ago I spent a week with handwritten signs stuck up around the house. These messages ranged from, I am a multi-millionaire to I am running my courses and changing lives around the world.

Also on the list, was I am loving my boyfriend, family and friends. What I came to realise by the end of the week was this. It will never matter how much money I earn, the most important things in life are the things over which money has no control. I could have millions in the bank, yet it won’t help me pay attention to my relationships. Read More→

Put It On Paper – Behind My Eyes

I did something a few weeks ago that I don’t do enough of, but promise to do more of in the future. I printed a photo book. To be honest, the main goal here was a Mother’s Day gift for my mom, showing off some of the pics of my boy over the last year. You see, she lives 850 miles away from her grandson and only gets to see him a couple of times a year, and for a 5-6 year old, that’s a lot of growing up she’s missing out on. This kind of gives her a summary of his growth in pictures and allows her to be at least a small part of it.

Sure, she sees the millions of images I post of him on Facebook (it seems like millions anyway), but to be able to have that book sitting on her coffee table and to be able to enjoy at any time without having to search through my timeline, or hers, is just a really nice convenience and she has enjoyed it a great deal.

Posting and sharing our photos on Facebook and/or other social networking veins is a ton of fun and, in my opinion, very important. First, so your images can be seen and shared in order to get some decent exposure and hopefully learn to get better through the exchange. Secondly, so the many people, like mom, who would not get to see them otherwise can, like distant family and friends. And we in turn get to see their pictures as well. The internet has become a treasure of memories that otherwise would not be available to us and I will continue to give and get enjoyment from it! Read More→

A Photographer’s Diary, Acknowledge Mountains Climbed

I was busy doing something the other day and I stopped to realise just how far I’ve come in the last year or so. And I don’t just mean business wise. I mean that now without too much thinking or EFT, the emotional freedom technique where you tap on points around the body to release fears, I am volunteering to get into situations that even just last year, would have had me running for the hills.

It’s too easy when you’ve never suffered from depression and anxiety or low self-esteem to sneer at people who have or are suffering. Yet, it is also understandable that people who have been lucky enough not to suffer, look at someone who is suffering with depression and see them smiling or laughing and think how can they have depression. That was the mistake I made once with a family friend, now though I understand from my own experience, when you are suffering you have good days and you have bad ones. It’s the stringing together of the good ones that helps you to recover.

I have just been with a group of people this week who are in a similar situation as I was a few years ago, though through group work they are making small yet hugely significant strides in their recovery. One of them said something that struck a chord. I’m going to paraphrase him. “A couple of years ago I was in hospital, now I’m able to come here every week and be with people who are suffering in similar situations to me and feel comfortable. I’m starting to feel more confident, yet sometimes the differences are so small I don’t always realise how far I’ve come on this journey.” Read More→

A Photograher’s Diary, The Garden Shows

It’s that wonderful time of year again when the garden shows are in full swing and I get to immerse myself in the fragrances, textures and visions of the gardens and planting.

This week I attended a press day at the BBC Gardeners World Live show and had a fabulous time exploring all the gardens. Though for me the magic is in the floral marquee; the textures of the flowers that exhibitors put together is so imaginative; sharp leaved thistles amongst soft vibrant poppies.

My favourite stand came from Cornwall, Kelnan Plants; it was full of exotic flowers and plants from South Africa, perfect for hot locations. The shapes, styles, colours of the plants featured there were just wonderful. The red and pink colours in petals went with the red that you could see in their neighbouring grass stemmed plants, and it was my first experience with a plant whose flower looked like cotton wool. Read More→

Introducing Jim Denham and Behind My Eyes

Morning On Kellogg

I’m Jim Denham and I’m a photographer. There, I said it. They say that admission is the first step in the process, right, so I’m admitting it. I’m a photographer. There was quite a time of denial several months ago where if someone asked if I was a photographer, words like “not really” or “sort of” were spouted, but the denial phase has come and gone and yielded to the acceptance phase.

OK, I’m not in any 12 step program for fixing my photography addiction, but I probably should be. It is an addiction. And the addiction is not just focused (pardon the pun) on any one type of photography – it’s all kinds. Family, events, street, action, HDR, macro…I have even shot one wedding, and I LOVED it! That’s right, you know that’s a sign!

So what got me here? I blame my kid. He gets blamed for everything else that happens so why not this, too? Well, it’s actually legit and is likely the same cause as others who have gotten into this wonderful art. We have a kid and we want to document his life, so we go out and buy a point and shoot camera. Then he starts walking/running and that camera doesn’t perform well enough anymore, so we need to get one with more reach so we don’t have to keep up with him. The new one comes with a class on how to take better pictures, and that’s the beginning of the end. Read More→